My pronouns are whichever you least prefer to use for me.
Respect isn't just about using the right words, but requires we do work for each other. In particular here, I'm hoping you can unpack some internal assumptions you may have about gender and pronouns. I'm also hoping you understand this for yourself: that it's alright to be inconvenient and that respecting you may take real work from folks, and that "the right words" may not be enough.
Also I think it's just good practice to use pronouns that you may not be familiar with. And of course I can't help but enjoy what looks like a paradox.
If this is all a bit new to you, or you're not very familiar with trans people, consider using she/her for me. Or if you're not used to they/them pronouns, or if you find it odd a trans woman would be using he/him pronouns, give either of those a shot. If all of these are easy, try using it/its or some neopronouns you're not very familiar with. Have fun!